So much more than dating
Friendship, love and relationships, yes. But also shibari and kink events, local poly meetups, parties, education, and counsellors who specialise in alternative relating.
Love doesn't always come in twos.
helloPOLY is honest dating, events and community for people who love outside the mainstream, openly, and on their own terms. Built from the ground up for polyamory, ENM and kink. Formerly PolyFinda. Same community, new name.
Not a niche filter on someone else's app.
Mainstream apps weren't built for the way you love. They treat anything outside monogamy as a checkbox. helloPOLY is purpose-built for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory and kink, so you spend less time filtering out incompatible matches and more time finding people who want the same thing. Choose the styles of relating that interest you, and match with people looking for someone like you.
What you can do
helloPOLY is so much more than a dating app. Community, events, and connection in every form. We're just getting started, with more coming soon.
People who already get it
Match on shared relationship styles and interests, with over 10 gender identities and relationship styles to choose from. No translating, no justifying.
Your feed, your rules
Filter for exactly who you want. Hide kinky profiles or see only the kinksters; mono or poly; shibari or not. Incompatible profiles stay out of your feed.
A real focus on shibari
Purpose-built matching for rope. It helps riggers and rope bottoms find each other to practise with. Filter to only those who list shibari, so you find the right partner faster.
Made by people who live it
Founded by members of the ENM community to help people explore every form of it. Consent-and-respect-first culture, real moderation, no judgement.
Say hello.
helloPOLY is free to join, on iOS and Android. Find people near you in minutes.
