Frequently asked questions
A dating, events, and community platform for people who love and connect on their own terms. Part app, part community, part real-world events. Built for people the other apps weren't built for.
Anyone whose relationships don't fit the conventional mould, and anyone curious about that life. Whether you've lived this for years or you're just starting to wonder, you belong here. You don't have to identify as anything to join.
No. And that's the point. Dating is part of it, but helloPOLY is built around community and belonging first. There are events, there are exciting new features in the works, and there's connection in every form, not just matching.
Most apps tolerate alternative relationships. helloPOLY was built for them, from inside the community, by people who run its events and live this life. Belonging comes first here, not the match.
Melbourne, Australia, with real community event history going back to 2014. We're growing from there.
Consent and respect are the foundation, not a feature bolted on top. Moderation is consent-and-respect-first, and it applies to everyone, every time.
No. Some people know exactly what they want; some are still finding out. Both are welcome, equally. Start with the community, start with an event, start wherever feels right.
helloPOLY is free to join. Download it, set up a profile, and look around at no cost. Some features inside the app are paid, so you can choose to unlock more when you’re ready. But finding your people starts free.
Download helloPOLY on the App Store or Google Play, and say hello.